Meet Your Relationship Anxiety Therapist
I’m Cristina Delgado, a Doctor of Counselling Psychology and relational anxiety therapist.
Welcome to Psychologically Minded. I’m so glad you’re here.
As the daughter of multicultural immigrants, I learned early that a life of hustle would not necessarily create happiness. Growing up, my parents worked hard for success. But they were constantly worried about the future. They struggled to relax and enjoy the present.
My parents were stuck in an unfulfilling cycle of disconnection from themselves and the people around them. I wanted to break that cycle – for myself and for others.
From a very early age, I knew I wanted to become a therapist. I recognised that everyone has their own difficult journeys, and I felt deep compassion for the people I would meet. I’ve always been curious about people’s experiences and stories, and have been able to see the strength and resilience in others.
But I didn’t always know how to see my own strength and resilience. I was caught in a loop; feeling anxious thinking about my connections with others, my body feeling in overdrive, and acting in ways that I would later find embarrassing. My insecurities about myself were reflected in the way I tried to connect with others. I realised that breaking my family’s generational cycle of disconnection was easier said than done.
I’ve always been anxious about how I come across to others. I’ve found myself in relationships that didn’t allow me to be my true, whole self. I’ve felt like a burden to others. And when I became a mom, my understanding of my own role in the world was flipped upside down.
Through my psychology education – and receiving therapy myself – I learned to look beyond the rat race and appreciate the small joys in life.
I became present in the process, not just focused on the end result.
And my life began to feel fulfilling every day, not just when I was able to take a holiday and escape from my routines.
And that’s the reason I started my practice – to help people feel more fulfilled and connected in their everyday lives.
Through my work as a relationship anxiety therapist, I’ve come to understand that our well-being in life depends on how we view, process, and make sense of our stories.
Your story includes your daily behaviours, habits, emotions, and thoughts. But it’s also your history, your deep-rooted beliefs and traditions, and your unconscious patterns.
That’s why I want to help you create better ways of thinking, improve your relationships, and improve the way you cope with your worries on a daily basis.
Through our work together, you’ll feel more present in your own company and the company of others. You’ll adapt to situations and circumstances more easily. You’ll develop more reflection, satisfaction, compassion, and thoughtfulness. And you’ll feel more fulfilled in your daily life.
Why Choose Me as Your Anxiety Therapist?
If you’re feeling inadequate, anxious, lonely, and dissatisfied, I want you to know that I see you.
And I’m here to help you break that cycle.
As your relational anxiety therapist, I work with you to change how you relate to yourself and others.
I believe that therapy can help you become who you want to be. And I’m honoured to walk alongside you on your journey. While I can’t promise this work will be easy, I can promise to be there to guide and support you every step of the way.
When we work together, I’ll:
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Hold space for you, no matter what you’re going through
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Work to make therapy as comfortable as possible
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Help you feel at ease
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See your strengths, even if you can’t yet
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Simplify things that feel complicated or confusing
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Acknowledge your unique experiences and situations with compassion and zero judgment
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Use humor and lightness whenever appropriate
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Collaborate with you to find your best treatment options
I’m here to help you find ease and contentment in your life. No matter what you’re experiencing – even if you’re stuck in unhelpful or distressing patterns – I’ll help you remember your strengths and values. I’ll remind you you’re never a failure. And I promise to always be in your corner, holding compassion and respect for you, no matter what happens.
Regardless of who you are, my goal is for you to leave our sessions feeling more psychologically minded.
This idea, which I’ve adapted from the work of Michael Karson, means you develop a capacity to examine yourself with accuracy, intelligence, curiosity, empathy, and humour that fosters healthy attachment and growth.
Let’s help you find the confidence, connection, and joy you crave so you can live the life you truly want.
My Values As Your Relationship Anxiety Therapist
The core values of my practice are tailor-made care, empowerment, HOPE, acceptance, relaxation, compassion, understanding, and knowledge.
My Education, Trainings, and Media Experience
EDUCATION
Richman EMDR training
January 2023 – July 2023
EMDR approved by EMDR International Association (EMDRIA) and EMDR-Europe Association (EMDR-E)
Association for Cognitive Analytical Therapy
October 2022
CAT introduction
City University London
September 2018 – September 2022
Course details: Professional Doctorate in Counselling Psychology
Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation of Trust
September 2014 – 2016
Course details: Ma Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
SOVEPSI (Venezuelan Society of Psychotherapy)
May 2013 - Dec 2013
Course Details: Strategic and Paradigmatic Psychotherapy for Families and Couples
Caracas Psychoanalytic Society
April 2009 - July 2011
Course Details: Advanced Diploma: Psychodynamic Psychotherapy for Children and Adolescents
Universidad Católica Andrés Bello (UCAB)
Oct 2003 - July 2009.
Course Details: Psychology Degree
Universidad Pontificia de Comillas (Madrid, Spain)
Sep 2005 - July 2006
Scholarship Exchange Program: Psychology
COLLABORATION
October 2022: Contribution to Laura Fowler’s article in the Telegraph: Inside the minds of Airport Dads
July 2020: Contribution to La Mira Life TV Argentina show on children’s education and promotion of mental health
May 2020: Be kind to yourself talk with Vows Collective